Its not I don't think time is a factor, it's a huge factor but I don't see time as working for us (like a war horse), time just is.

If we don't learn to use our horses then time can be a factor against us, for example if we keep riding the beg and plead horse.

I do need to reread DR though as its been a little while (actually my reading has dropped off a bit).


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress