No, you're not wrong. In fact you are absolutely right. You are merely playing wise defense, and protecting yourself. Legally, financially, emotionally -- time to button them all up.
Have you seen an atty yet, or are you waiting to be served?
Starsky
I have spoke with attorney but not yet retained one. Our case would be rather straightforward in that we don't have children together and do not own any property. Our bills will be split 50/50, as will our assets. She is trying to guilt me into taking the majority of the bills, and conveniently "forgot" to list her $200k 403b assets for retirement. She wants us each to keep our own retirements and says that we can do everything on our own without attorneys. Obviously, she is hoping that I just give in to keep the peace, but that's not gonna happen. Especially with her in an ongoing affair.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
