I became emotionally distant and became silent and moody. I would go off by myself during arguments and teenager fights. We slept in the same bed, but our physical relations dwindled significantly. We still said “I love you”, but it was a quick mumble and peck on the cheek sort of thing.
Just read your thread. The quote above sounds completely familiar.
I to would be extremely interested in the article on winning your WAW back by being her friend.
I have personally never seen this approach work when there is an active, unrepentant affair involved. To me, it doesn't even jibe with everything else that MWD teaches -- is love to ask her about it. Strong boundaries and GAL, 180s, cleaning up your own side of the street. That's what works.
