I would say almost word-for-word your experience has been the same as my own. So long to heal from it. I am his lighthouse, and now he is mine again. Him and I against the world! We don't pretend it didn't happen; MLC is part of our shared-history now. Its a growth catalyst for both of us.
So happy for you, my friend. So happy!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway