W sent a third email last night talking about getting a resume off her crashed computer for a job. She then asked me if I had gotten it in my email at some point.

Of the 3 emails. I replied to the first one about our S, with a link for the cell phone service.

Not sure if I should help her with her schooling or job stuff, or if I should just let her be independent (what she said she wanted anyway) and let her figure it all out herself. Part of me says it will be beneficial to the family, but then I think it will just benefit her and someone else if she does leave for good.

She came home this morning and was in the shower when I brought our S in. S wanted to go to the store. I asked W if she wanted to go. She obliged. Complained about her computer dying. I did tell her that I honestly did not know if was going to do that. She wants to buy her own laptop, and wants to get some stuff off of the old one. I told her it can be done, without offering my services. I suppose I could ask her to pay me to do the work at the going rate of other computer services...

No difficult conversations so far. Some laughs actually.


M: 29 W: 27
M: 4 yrs
T: 9 yrs
Children: S3
EA: Discovered 11/2014
PA: Admitted to starting 12/2014