Wow. U, just try to stay as calm as possible. Be a rock. Listen. Don't make any judgements or rash moves. She needs you to be the rock and there for her.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014