Sorry for the spot you are in alpha...especially about the kids. I hate having to read about sitchs with young kids involved that see the mess but don't understand it.
I am beyond not an expert but have perhaps been dealing with this now longer than you have so the one thing I can say that is great news is, even though you have been taking care of your kids very well already, you will now see your children in an even more beautiful light in coming weeks and months. Treasure that time and make sure and give them literally all the hugs they ask for. They are hurting and don't always know how to express it.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14
