WOW!! I felt like I was reading my situation as I just read yours. The work and changing jobs. Same here! Sex part, same thing. Nice guy thing!! Controlling!! Are you sure you didn't copy my situation? But I am guessing you are not dealing with your wife's job as a phone sex operator!!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"