Something along the lines of "The situation we are in was a wake up call for me to make some changes in my life. I see that I have not been the best person I can be and want to change that. These changes are for me, if you want a divorce I am not going to stand in your way but since that's not a mutual goal I won't help you with it either."
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
