Wife says she's out the door

[Sherman333]

Another item she keeps bring up is my clothing style... She like more of a metro sexual look. Through all the previous years, both of our selections have been bland to say the least. She's even bought clothes and then talked about how much she hated them (I know she was talking about how she looked). She says I suck at picking out clothes. We'll see how today goes.

For this morning... one item we did discuss is what type of woman I want to be married to... One thing I mentioned is that I want someone patient with the kids and me. I told her I know she struggles with this, but I know she could do it. Her response was "yeah... especially if I'm not drinking". I consider this to be huge.

Only real negative item, is she's planning to have drinks with her boss after work. The reason is someone else in the office is turning 50. I of course have some concern, but only sure... have fun. She keeps talking about her new boss... a lot. She did say his personality reminds her of her brother though. If an affair started, it would definitely complicate matters. I need to think through how I'd react.