This whole process for me really started last November. So since thine I've dropped 40lbs or so.
On her work trip she took, I fell off the wagon a little and that coupled with how she felt with others caused her to put having a life with me at the periphery. She sees her life with others as giving her more of what she wants/needs.
I'm focusing on those expressions and building attraction.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.