Vanilla, you are right. I just took a nice relaxing bath and thought it would be a good thing if I could, as you say, flip each item and use it to my advantage.

May ell posted a link to a reframing site a while back which I did take a look at but I think either I'm not clever enough to do this or I need help and or practice.

One of my hates is that I cannot detach sufficiently but I think it is coming. There has been a definite shift. If it weren't for the boys I would gladly curse the selfish **** all the names under the sun, chainsaw in half everything we own and disappear, never to meet again.

Right, time for breakfast, a haircut and then find stuff to do.

Last edited by Old Dog; 02/28/15 09:56 AM.
M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner