Of late Jim I have had a tendency to remove myself tempoarily from H. This is the best move in the temporary time frame and creates difficulties in the longer time frame. H says he feels abandoned and there is some truth in it. It removes me from his spew, rants, insults of V and offensive (to me) outbursts. I suspect I find H views objectionable but it is his timing and method of delivery I dislike more.

I have tried to reframe it, but now I have a boundary.

H, when you present your views and opinions to me when you have been drinking then I find them difficult to accept as your views. If you present by outburst then I will leave and make no comment.

Enough.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 02/28/15 09:39 AM.
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