I guess I was thinking of it more positively in a 'I'm going hiking in the peak district for a couple if days so I won't be contactable'

So not going dark or NC just simply being completely unavailable because your off doing something fun.

Ugh peppers - despicable things.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress