Wife left me three weeks ago!

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Just a quick thought I've had, but would anyone have any idea on how to respond to direct questioning over certain things? For example, if W asks why are you being so nice? Why aren't you fighting? I don't understand, you said X but now you're doing Y. Are you trying to use reverse psychology? So far, following LRT, I've said things like I'm just trying to make positive changes in.myself, there's no point in fighting, it doesn't solve our problems etc. She doesnt sound convinced of these answers hence her suspicions. Am I answering in the right way in trying to be vague and so on? I am making changes for myself but of course the goal is to win her back also. I know of course not to say that to her but this is one point where I do feel slightly in limbo. I can make changes and let them been seen subtly without going Ta dah! But reading about LRT option two is that W might take interest in a positive manner. There have been moments of that but again it's outweighed by accusatory questions of what you doing that for?