When you care more about doing the right thing than you do about "how you come across," you will have taken the needed step.

Also, if your wife is serious about ending her affair and reconciling, there's almost NOTHING YOU CAN SAY THAT WILL DETER her.

Think about that for a good while.

If she's ready, and sincere, you almost can't screw it up. Of course conversely, if she's not (and she's playing you), there's almost nothing you can say that will make a difference either.

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)