Keep your head up Vdubber, she sounds like she wants you in her life...on her terms only. I am dealing with the same thing with my WAW, it's absolutely heart wrenching watching my kids go through this and it's also killing me.
Hang in there.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016