Thank you for taking the time to read my post and reply. I was following thru about our landline with my wife based on my lawyer's recommendation. It's in her name, so only she can cancel it and I asked her to months ago.
As for the workshop, i did check into it. What a great idea! The problem for me is I cannot take any money out my savings account unless it is used for marital property, etc (called Marital Dissapation).
I completey forgot about the TED TALK videos -- thanks for the reminder.
My therapist thinks she may be so depressed that she can barely take care of herself, let alone think about reconciling or looking too much into the future. (My wife has MS and suffers from pretty severe depression.)
The biggest 180 I am working on now is not contacting her at all.
Again, it's kind of difficult, in my opinion, for her to see any changes I may have made since we have such little phone contact and do not see each other.
I think I got away from the D/B basics 25. That may be the best advice of all!
Thank you so very much. I really need the support as I am still devastated by this. One thing I pride myself in is that I was always there for my wife when she was "down in the dumps" and needed a shoulder to cry on. I think that's why this walk out/divorce are extremely painful to me.
Again, thank you 25.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
