Ok. I'm working on rereading Cunningham's book on attraction.
Only reason I was thinking this might work balance the 2. Take charge of getting things done, but also focus on building a connection. One of her complaints is that I'm not her best friend. We don't connect anymore and she feels alone in the relationship.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.