Wife left me three weeks ago!

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Again: that she is projecting things on you that are not true is pure SCRIPT. Read the posts here, they ALL do that. Personally it feels like a punch in your fave every single time right? But you know what you have to try to do? Think of her as being "sick", she's not herself, there's another person in her body, don't let it get to you. Try to "observe" instead of to react to her. Be calm and loving. It might make her even more mad bc she doesn't get the reaction from you that she expects or wants, but YOU know you are doing the right thing! I always tried to think about it like watching a movie.
It's called DETACHMENT! you'll hear this word a thousand more times.

And DONT talk bad about W in front of her parents! It'll all backfire, she'll find out. Show them you love her and you are commited to her, that's what parents want to see. But also don't try to get them on your side. Stay strong but let them stay neutral. Be mature. Correct me vets if I'm wrong with this.