Susana (6) - Feelin' Stronger Every Day

[susana4]

Wow, this has opened so much debate!!

Zues, Wonka, Zelda, Mozza, Tarheel, Calibri, Starsky, Gogofo (think that's everyone!) - thanks so, so much for your different viewpoints - I really appreciate hearing all of the different thoughts and it's interesting how much feelings around sex, and reactions to it, vary by person!

Lots and lots for me to think about.

I just wanted to say - I have low to no expectations here. Frankly, I am happy to be ML because I don't know when I'll next get an opportunity and I have a very high sex drive... But, I am trying my best to follow Cadet's advice - no expectations! I know sex is sex is sex. I am going to keep on doing what I've been doing.

Starsky - just wanted to say I did NOT tell H I was bothered last time about the no kissing! The only thing I told him after last time was "I had fun" (when he asked if we should talk about it) - and then changed the subject.
Great advice on what to do next time. I think that would work a treat. Just need to make sure I carry it out and don't get carried away (I'm not really one to turn sex down, I can only think of one instance when I ever turned H down, I know it's men who typically "think with the wrong head" but even though I'm a woman, I do that too!). But I need to stay strong, because that sounds like an awesome plan.