Susana (6) - Feelin' Stronger Every Day

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Susana, I think if you now pull back and cut him off -- playfully -- he will pursue you.

"No, not this time . . . I think we've done quite enough! (laughing) I think we should cool it for awhile. Ta-ta!"


a) you would feel great about yourself that YOU are in control; and

b) as natural pursuers, this plays to his male instincts.

I would especially do the above if he had been drinking again the next time: "I think you'd better take your drunk big head and your little head to the couch, sweetie -- let's see how we both feel about this another day, when you're sober." (again, said playfully)


Starsky

He is hitting the nail on the head right there. You can take back control and he would follow you like a puppy with his tongue out.