P.S.

Susana, I think if you now pull back and cut him off -- playfully -- he will pursue you.

"No, not this time . . . I think we've done quite enough! (laughing) I think we should cool it for awhile. Ta-ta!"


a) you would feel great about yourself that YOU are in control; and

b) as natural pursuers, this plays to his male instincts.

I would especially do the above if he had been drinking again the next time: "I think you'd better take your drunk big head and your little head to the couch, sweetie -- let's see how we both feel about this another day, when you're sober." (again, said playfully)


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)