Yes, I agree that you should carry on as you are Susana. Certainly, your H seems to be drawing closer rather than further. I too am concerned about the comment - I don't want to be a dick - like on the one hand he wants to ML, but on the other hand, he still may feel he wants to leave. And he feels ML to you is thus unfair. But still he feels some passion and some tenderness, but on the other hand he may still want to go. That's the sense I get.

I would certainly keep your expectations pretty low. Maybe just see this as S that you are having during an uncertain time in your M, rather than a huge turn in your sitch. There could well be bends in the road ahead....and only you can know whether it's ok for you to ML and feel less detached amidst this uncertainty.

Hope you have a good weekend! T x


Last edited by Toots; 02/27/15 08:08 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus