Sounds like you handled things well with your W. I would just ignore any further requests about the NC thing with OM's command. That's his and her problem, and if he didn't want to get in trouble with his employer, he should have thought about that sooner shouldn't he? Not your problem my friend.
Now....what lovely things does your life have in store going forwards?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus