Did it all. W continued to claim I was controlling her. I just kept telling her that they are my boundaries. She asked what my definition of boundaries was: "Things and actions that go against my morals and values that I cannot accept happening for me to be happy." Thought about that one for a little while.
That is as good of a definition as I've ever seen. DEFINITELY as good as I've ever seen anyone DELIVER, on the fly. Nicely done, sir!