So yesterday was an adventure. I met my W at Starbucks. I said exactly what I planed to say maybe a few extra words but all in all I got the message across. She sat and listened. As I stood up to leave she asked me if I was willing to write a letter to OM's command requesting to drop the NC. I said W I am not going to do anything for or against this marriage, and I am going to look forward for me.
She said well if you are serious about moving on this is what I need from you. And then she says. "just because you say it's over doesn't mean it's over. We still need to be amicable to one another. I responded with "I need space and quietness at the moment and I would appreciate if you respected that.
