S - my H and I ML 2-3 times ex spouse, cold and physical before the turning point.
What you describe, and I don't want to get your hopes up - every situation is different - is the feelings coming back. Session #4 for us was tender. Took him about five days before he resolved it all and realized he wanted to work it out.
Have a date, fun. Have a talk that brings you closer together. ML again. Give space - Keep showing him the sexy brave Susanna he's about to lose.
Fire on all cylinders around the week if you want this.
Dignity!
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
