Yes, had a pretty nice day, pottering about and glad to be feeling better. Off to the parents in a few mins. Holistic coach? Jim, that sounds a far nicer career than my current one. And V, I'm sure I can turn my hand to roofing if that helps?
Complex, actually my L said the D comment in a very kind way. I very much feel she is on my side. And yes, my hope is that we will legally S - including dealing with the financials as though we are D. I don't want to file for a 'fault' D and would prefer we wait until 2 years S to have a 'no fault' D.
However, these are all my preferences and I have no idea what H thinks. He would have to agree to all of that and he may not. We may shortly have an impasse - IDK. He hasn't responded to my email and I'm not going to chase him up.
Thanks so much for your comments about my strength...I really don't feel that strong, but nice if I manage to come across that way at least sometimes! It's certainly easier not seeing my H much (not seen him since August!) but there are pros and cons to that too...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
