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perhaps now's the time to re-evaluate the situation and your role in it -


^^^^ BINGO!!!

You've been waiting, doing more or less the same things, expecting/wanting a different outcome...what did Einstein supposedly say about that???

Wet, YOU matter too.

Let's assume W is going to stay, as she is, for quite a while (I'm thinking years).

Do you see a happy, fulfilling R with her now and for the next 20 years, if she came back, as she is, right now??

Be honest.

And why would she come back? Financial reasons? Familiarity? Getting Wet's support again for her projects?

Would you want her back for those reasons ^^^^?

Really??

What about Wet?

He deserves better than that, imo. Heck, everyone does.

Remember way back when, when that Mach guy asked you about love vs. obligation?

Maybe it's time to ruminate on that some more, now that you have had more time witnessing W, and her reality.

Wet, YOU matter too.

smile

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm