Very true... I didn't mean to sound like I'm in a mood where I don't want to have fun... I do plan to get out with friends -- but with some boundaries in place so that if I am out with friends (one or a group) where there might be some interest, I am not doing anything to lead anyone on or fall into the trap of doing my own "escape" with someone who might be available. As tempting as that might be in weaker moments... I know where my heart really is and I know that I have to remain on a healthy path of developing myself emotionally, mentally, and spiritually in order to continue to grow in a healthy way so that I am better prepared for the next relationship (whether that's in a new R with my W or a new R with someone else).
So yes -- still working on GALing, PMA, 180s, and having as much fun as possible... especially with my kids... :-)
W just left for the airport to spend the weekend at her brother's wedding... I was originally supposed to go -- but all of those plans were made pre-BD... So the kids and I have a fun weekend planned :-) I'm already feeling a bit of relief knowing that I'm away from her energy until very late Sunday night (she'll get home after I've gone to bed) and I am looking forward to this small break. Everything has been very friendly between the two of us over the past couple of days -- doesn't mean much of anything right now because A with OW is still ongoing -- but it is a bit nice even if it is a bit confusing & frustrating... W is acting like her old self quite a bit, just without the affection (hugs, kisses, I love you's) that we had in the past. But, whatever, it's MLC and it is what it is...
As for me -- still workin' on my masterpiece!
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
