Hi Toots, Sounds like stressful times for you right now. I'm reading very carefully since all of this might hit me rather sooner than later. So are you going to legally separate? I understand your fear of D. It's final. The comment of your lawyer was a little irritating "why don't you just D". I hope you will be fine in this whole process and stay the great and strong Toots that we all know!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
