Originally Posted By: Mozza

Karma12 | Thanks for your insights. My WAW admired me much, but then it became too much of a master/student relationship and I guess she wanted either to be in charge or at least an equal. She found someone 5 years younger than her, rather than 5 years older. I'd be curious to know what she's learning about herself and relationships through this.


I wonder about this too. At what point do WAWs learn, and what will they learn from their situation. Unfortunately, I think it is different for each of them.. we have all heard the stats that would indicate some don't learn. That was kind of a debby down-er... So remember... at the same time, MWD always says it only takes one to tango.

Originally Posted By: Mozza

mahhhty | I'm very happy if you can benefit from it! The Stockdale paradox is an inspiration for me too, a way to just shut up and execute. I think these boards could use a sort of wiki space where we would update the success stories, resources, etc. But the technology doesn't seem to be there. (BTW, have you ever explained your strange nickname??)


I agree that it would be nice to have the success stories stick out somehow.

I'm a New England Guy born and raised. I like to think I am from Boston, but I am definitely not, more like Cowtown, USA. Anyway, my name is Marty and that is how a Bostonian would say my name. There are no "R's" when speaking with a Boston accent. The classic example is Park the Car at Harvard Yard would become Pahk the Cah At Hahvad Yahd. I just overemphasized it.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015