Wife left me three weeks ago!

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Hi Alpha,
Sorry to hear first of all. You mentioned so many times that W is suspicious and angry towards you. Is it possible she is just reflecting her own actions on you??? It is typical for cheaters, they all do that!! Hang in there. Read DR again after you are done. Browse through other threads here and try to find the ones that are similar to your situation. Especially in the beginning reading helps the most. Gain as much knowledge as you can as fast as you can and apply it!!!
And don't let her offensive behaviour get to you too much and don't believe what she is saying. For now I'd just step back from conflicts with her, focus on yourself, read read read and then eventually you have a better idea of what to do, how to react. Realize that this is more about YOU (and your children) than about anything else now.