This need not be the end.

[Sherman333]

I've been such a typical "Nice Guy" for all of my life. I never thought that it could be a bad thing.
Unfortunatley, I've never felt like much of a man to be honest. I've been immature in my actions, thoughts and communication but really only with my W? At work and around friends I'm confident, funny, and mature. My W is the other way around. She's mature around me but immature when around her friends. I've procrastinated all my life, not finished many things that I've started, and have never gone after things I wanted...just for me.

This sounds very similar to my situation. Main difference is that I was angry at my wife for things and wasn't about to do what she wanted until she threw even more of a fit.

I trying to knock off a lot of projects now, but am sooo far behind I don't know if I can make a dent before stuff really crashes beyond what it already has.