Ganb8te 5 - Escaping the abyss

[jim0987]

Gan,

Your H said you're amazing, and you know why that is right? You said so above.

Because you are.

Your smart, driven, resourceful and its clear that your respected by your peers. And who wouldn't want the smart, hot one as their supervisor

You got 98% positive feedback and that's really good. I'd kill for feedback on my courses like that. Usually I bribe instead

But in what you said you also showed your considerate, and helpful and reliable.

You do all this at work and so you can do it home. And you know to switch off from work as well, with safaris and London and volunteering at gigs. Its clear some if your colleagues don't and I would guess the one that asked has some anxiety of his own about this balance.

So in short we're back at the start, in that you're amazing.

As for compatible with your H, maybe its true, maybe it's not, maybe he just is prepared for the effort and occasional compromise it might take. But comparability is a two way thing.

Gin and tonic are compatible, gin and vanilla milkshake not so much. Doesn't mean both aren't still good.

So in my opinion (humble as it is) you strengths are your strengths and they are good, don't try to tone them down or compromise them to be a 'great partner' try and focus them differently or learn new skills that let them work for you in all aspects of your life. If you a great person you'll be a great partner to whoever is lucky enough to be with you.

Sorry if I've waffled


(((((Ganb8te)))))

Very jealous of your balcony again by the way.