And being not sure sounds really healthy as well, kind of like you know what you want in an R, you'd be happy if that were with H but if he's not up to it then you are sure your worth more than that. Something like that anyway.
Feel free to launch your new career by redesigning the interior of my place, because my talents lay elsewhere - playdough animals for example.
Actually with that, your knowledge of what colours to wear, your new found DB skills and I'm sure a multiplicity of other talents, you could get some coaching qualifications and set yourself up as some sort of holistic life-stylist.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress