Thanks, Jim, Zelda and Toots.

Toots, no I've not contacted H. I'm not in a strong enough place right now (as my next post will show). When I get back I will have 2 weeks then be off again (Tanzania/Uganda - work but trying to throw in a safari GAL for good measure). After that I will most likely contact a L before/if I contact H. We become eligible to apply for D in early May so I suppose I need to get myself prepared for that possibility. Never thought I would write that, quite honestly. But then I suppose no one here did.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014