Good to hear from you. Glad your doing OK, thigh I imagine you'll be doing better once you get the house sorted.
4 stone is a lot will definitely notice. Good work.
Its really hard to see how they think its a better choice than working on things would have been. But its their choice and we just make the best of it.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress