Ic sounds a great plan, I avoided councilling for years despite the fact it could have helped me out, i thought i knew what theyd say and it couldn't make any difference, after bd I knew I needed someone's help it really did help me contextualise a lot of things.
Always remember (with apologies to simone elkeles)
Opinions (and views) are like @ssholes everyone has one ..
Mil is one for rewriting history to fit and it drove everyone around her to dispair as she would just say no the other person was wrong even when the "new" version made no sense. It seems to be a narcisit trick or at least it is in her case. I miss a lot from our marriage but not dealing with her!
Keep being you gg, believe in yourself I have faith in you.
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
