walk away wife after 22 years part 3

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I'm doing good .
Had an encounter with ex and OM yesterday which she decided to ignore me . But OM looked like he [censored] himself was real rabbit in the head lights moment lol.
Maybe he didn't instantly recognise me because I've lost over 4 stone and been working out in the gym .
Some one mentioned it may have been that he saw me as a threat especially in light of his own lifestyle of cheating repeatedly .

That would have been the second time I've seen her in 5 months since she left .

Last time I just said hello and don't think she responded just stood there looking at me .

think ex has been testing the waters also . Little things in her texts about it's nice that we are being friendly and hopefully we can go to daughters shows together .
One about glad I'm getting the house sorted with a winky face and also a few xxs after some messages.
But I'm strong and don't even reply or in anyway reply in a similar way.

My sister thinks that I have complelty and utterly done everything my exw wouldn't have expected me to do .
And I think that has really helped me get to where I am today .
My sister recons exw was expecting me to pursue and plead and beg to come home but I didn't and she has ended up in a bedsit with this guy and for all my W saying I showed her nothing in the way of moving forward as a couple ,how has that worked out for her because I can't see how what she did was moving forward .