Hi all.
Just an update on what's been happening .

Moving forward with the house equity buy out . As I suspected the minute I mentioned it all talk of doing for nothing was a load of lies and settled at a reasonable figure although I don't want to pay her a penny .
Getting agreement drawn up with solicitor at the moment.

Daughter has a slightly better relationship with Her mum but it's become a buy her affections relationship , which is sad .

Son seems to have become more distant from her again .

Just can't wait to get the house sorted even though it means adding 7 years back onto length due to new affordability rules.


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .