Gan, I too think you sound lovely. Did you decide to do nothing in respect of contacting your H for now? Are you just going to head off on your trip then see how you feel when you get back?

March is a nice time to be visiting us - and hopefully you'll get some nice spring weather in the UK. It's still a bit chilly now, but you never know!

As for my H, I've not had a response since my carefully worded email reply to him. I get a sense that he emailed me in a 'post-being made redundant early morning panic' and may be a bit discombobulated by my reply. I guess time will tell. Will you keep in touch with the boards during your trip?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus