Thanks for your opinion 25yr. I think a LS would be good. It is a legal process and it'll just feel like D. But it won't be. D is final.

I do not want her to declare anything. I just think I shouldn't fight it.
She is trying to help me out with everything. She told me she cares for me and doesn't want to screw me over.

Fair enough I guess. Gives me some time, but I took a good amount of action to support myself already.

Today I'm thinking about her dad all day long. He was so heartbroken today. In a weird way it made me feel better, maybe bc it was a validation for me that I'm not so bad after all and that this is not really my fault smirk


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15