Sandi2 - wholeheartedly agree with your post - have re-read your and other posts many times - wondered what you meant by
"IMO, you have already let too much time slide between the confrontation and now."
Can you please elaborate on the two referenced times (present and which confrontation) and let too much time for what?
Also, about the being in charge bit - although I really like the sound of that - I am just wondering where my bargaining power supposedly stems from. I mean, I am at a loss as how to effect change within the R.
