Thanks for the reply hrdtims. The more time that goes by the more I think that this is not a salvageable R. Even if she does give up her present AP, who is to say she does not have another A down the road, I.e., post- reconciliation (if any). How can you trust your W after going thru the hell I am experiencing?
I have told W now on multiple occasion to leave with AP (but w/o kids). She has refused to leave w/out them and now I do not see anything that I can do at this point (except for filing for D which would result in a distribution of marital assets).
I am still holding on (rightfully or wrongfully so) to hope that W will come to senses and realize that what she is doing is wrong for all parties involved incl. herself.
I am focused on being a better person - not just a better H but a all around better person. I like that.
Best wishes to you and your kids. Good luck on your new adventures.
