Originally Posted By: RysinMn
Thank you... Like i said. I am letting go not giving up! I am putting this into fates hands and i am ready to live for me and better myself and see what comes my way. I love her enough to let her go. and i really am at peace with it. thank you again.


What was "wrong" with you in the first place. There may well have been nothing wrong except you put too much stock in her and too little in yourself. Enjoy your life and do things you really want to do. And yes, being cheated on is a great time to go after self improvement efforts.

You might not get your wife back, but with enough self esteem and awareness you may very well receive a woman who appreciates a man like you, and is also good for you.