a few posts back, you said you were going to post about your role in the marital crisis and the flaws you want to work on.
Can you do that sometime soon? It would help us, to help you.
As for the dinner, have your goal be to "eat dinner with w and NOT have R talk."
Remember to be upbeat, a fun optimistic KIND Man, not critical of anyone, no judging, etc.
IF SHE brings the R up, ask her if it's "okay to table that for now"
and get back to discussing what is safe, e.g. the kids or YOUR GAL or family, etc.
and remember your 180s...what are they?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
