No words, T. I'm so sorry. You deserve better, 100x over. Think it's time to let her feel consequences of her words/actions? Take care of yourself please. It may be a bump, and you may really be ***done. Time will tell. Keep talking to people, let someone hold you if you can. Would if I could.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
