I want to circle back to the cold/clingy thing - does your anger manifest in a coldness usually?
He's singing to you about food;) does this count as a move toward you in your book? Is this his way of showing interest in you? Or interest in food?
Your feelings are totally normal. God knows there were days I looked down upon my H and had so much anger for him. Everyone around here goes thru it. But S will have a better chance to come around IF there is unconditional love (at somewhat a distance?) while you decide IF he is someone worthy of you and who you want to fight DB-style for.
Hugs, you're doing great!
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
